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Saying something is “okay”
doesn’t mean condoning it.
It acknowledges it’s existence.
Naming something “right” or “wrong”
is the indicator of where we got lost.
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I don’t tell my 3 year old daughter who is masturbating in front of me that it’s not okay. It is okay because she’s doing it and to her it is okay. (Even if I don’t particularly want her masturbating in front of other people or in public.) A lot of people would yell at their kids and say that’s bad, don’t do that! Or worse. A lot of people would encourage healthy sexuality. To say it’s good or bad imposes my opinion on her. So, for me the process works like this
1. It’s happening, so yes it’s okay.
And 2. now how can we create a framework so she stays comfortable and safe in her own body and sexuality and in the rest of the world?
I do NOT condone racism. I also don’t condone my daughter masturbating around other people but they are both okay because they exist. I didn’t mean EVER to say racism is good or sexism or any sort of painful scenario is good.
Okay to me = exists and if you read that in a different way and took offense, I apologize for not being clearer. ☁️
p.p.s. I absolutely adore my roots and where I came from including the Deep South and my family of various colors. I adore all humans and I work to bring unity through polarity, even if you don’t like the way I do it. If you’re looking to make me your enemy, it won’t work. I don’t think I’m right anymore than anyone else is right. We’re all trying to create a better world for one another, and we do it in a myriad of ways. Whatever raises the hairs on my back in defense is always my starting point for my work so thank you for that! 💎

+one year ago+
on the road.
don’t know where I’m going.
don’t care where I’m going.
nowhere is home.
everywhere is home.
newly heartbroken then.
always heartbroken now.
life is a hilariously messy dream of beauty.
never wake me up.
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everything changes and everything stays the same.
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anyone else?

STOP. WAITING.
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For permission to do/be/have anything you desire.
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I waited for permission to BE ME for way too long. And guess what? It never came.
So I gave it to myself.
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I give you permission to be do and have anything you want. But it will take work. That’s why I teach what I teach.
I became the teacher I always longed for.
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The only reason I’m alive is to guide other humans to the kind of freedom that allows me to dance in the middle of nowhere forest in the most luxurious handmade sustainably sourced silk while singing to the ice crystals and bears all while being homeless, recently painfully single, not having eaten in a day+ and still the happiest I’ve ever been, hands down.
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What do you want to create?
Leave a comment below!!
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I want to know what you desire so I can create more of what your life needs🦄 let’s change the world together through loving ourselves so much that we take no shit, first and foremost from ourselves.
Get to work. I’m so happy to dance beside you.
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One of my most favorite things to do is to show someone their own puckered a$$hole when they think they know something or they’re better than someone or they need to put someone in their place or they know what’s right or best for another.
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That’s what my teachers do to me and I LOVE squirming in my own puckered butt until I can loosed a bit 💋👅.
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We all have buttholes.
Mine is certainly not prettier than yours.
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One of my teachers (while laughing so hard he nearly peed himself) told me to be gentler with people but never stop pissing them off after I told him about the current social media slaughterhouse of condemnation and judgement without trial.
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Here’s your gentle kick in the pucker 💩 today: Bullies want the easiest target so buck up! Know who you are. Defense isn’t necessary when you know who you are and what your work is. And maybe your work is to fight! Then go to law school and get a couple letters after your name or become an activist or make a sign and stand on the street corner right beside the person who hates abortions bc guess what? Everyone has an opinion. And that’s exactly why our country decided on a very set legal proceeding, and whether you agree with them or not, this is the reality of our American life.
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And I’m so glad. Imagine if every cyber accusation or bullying was reality?
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I, for one, would be burned, stoned, flogged and worse. My people would NOT be happy about me rejoining them and they would promptly kick my very 3D puckered lips right back down to earth to get to work 💀👽.
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I actually don’t know how to do this whole gentle yet firm thing.
Is it like marzipan?
Have I been watching too much of the @britishbakeoff?
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Can you give me some advice on the gentle yet firm thing?
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It’s okay to change your mind.
It’s okay to not agree with your mother.
It’s okay if you tell your partner to brush their gd teeth more often.
It’s okay if you’re racist.
It’s okay if you hate racists.
It’s okay if you’re love and light.
It’s okay if you talk to dead people
It’s okay if you meditate and nothing happens.
It’s okay if you love chocolate.
It’s okay if strawberry is your thing.
It’s okay if you prefer potato chips.
It’s okay if you like sweet potato chips.
It’s okay if you’re keto.
It’s okay if you’re vegan.
It’s okay if you don’t know what you are.
It’s okay if you use birth control.
It’s okay if you’ve had an abortion.
It’s okay if you believe cycle tracking is the only way and everything else is cheating.
It’s okay if you’re a cheater.
It’s okay if you lie.
It’s okay if you refuse to appease someone with a reassurance.
It’s okay if you like being catcalled.
It’s okay if you turn around and scream FUCKING FUCK YOU MOTHERFUCKER to a catcaller.
It’s okay if you wish your best friend would call more.
It’s okay if you pick up the phone and call your best friend 20 times in a row.
It’s okay if you have 5 homes.
It’s okay if one burns down.
Or all 5.
It’s okay if you don’t have a home.
It’s okay if you made a huge mess of a situation and don’t know how to fix it.
It’s okay if it stays unfixed.
It’s okay if you try to fix it.
It’s okay if you don’t know what you’re supposed to do.
It’s okay if you’re on career # 3 and you’re 30.
It’s okay if your relationship fails.
It’s okay if you’ve only had one relationship.
Or none.
It’s okay if your hair is waist length.
It’s okay if you buzz it off.
It’s okay if you don’t wear undergarments.
It’s okay if you wear lingerie as normalwear.
It’s okay if you are a nudist.
It’s okay if you cheat in order to feel good about yourself.
It’s okay if you don’t give 2 shits about feeling good about yourself.
It’s okay if you win.
It’s okay if you lose.
It’s okay if it’s a draw.
It’s okay if you wonder if he’ll call.
It’s okay if he does.
It’s okay if he doesn’t.
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...I could write all night
My darling. It’s ALL OKAY.
Be kind to yourself 1st; it will trickle out to all 🔑
What else is controversially okay? Comment below.

We all struggle with finding the right words.
How can we put words to the magnificence of morning dew on this bud?
The simple is SO complicated.
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Can you relate?
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Whether it’s fires or floods or tornadoes or shootings or cancer or dementia or autism or a bacterial sac of the largest organ we call skin filled with collagen and calcium phosphate bones covered in clothes made from either other beings like silk or chemical processes like polyester with a thinking rational, linear mind and conflicting emotions that change with every tender heartbeat witnessing the world around us through lenses we call eyes that are really just waves of sound and light that we’ve all agreed upon as true or false and against which we compare all our pasts and futures and then project all that onto others around us we’ve agreed to be in relationships with.
Whew. Yea it’s complicated to say the very least not to mention race religion age sex ability money right wrong up down holy fuck me!
Literally.
Someone holy thank you for fucking me into a desire to attach less to the words and just love more.
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There will always be something traumatic and/or confusing that happens in our world.
I am not immune.
It’s called being human.
And right now I’m weeping because sometimes I get told a clear NO. And sometimes I have to tell someone else a clear NO.
And, let’s face it.
Sometimes there’s nothing clear about anything.
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Who are we when we’re faced with the insanity around us?
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At least 100 people I personally know (at least!) are affected by the fires in California right now.
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Part of me goes, finally. The energetica around Southern California and the vortex of concentrated vibration there (“celebrity”, “famous”, thats where one goes to join the massive platform of worldwide influencers) has got to be killed so the energy can be reborn. Yet another part of me cries for the people and the pain and the animals and the land. Yet another part of me goes, don’t cry.
It’s time.
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Who knows what to do.
The deaths will keep happening.
They will speed up.
I’m gonna keep my head down, stay in my lane, and do what I know I came here to do - MY WORK.
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How are you feeling? 🔥